If you have been chosen to be the best man, then you have some very important tasks ahead of you. You want to make sure you give a great wedding toast speech; you don’t want to embarrass your yourself and most especially, your friend.
In this post, we like to give you tips that would guide you to giving a great wedding toast speech that everybody present in the occasion would love.
Tips to Giving a Great Wedding Speech Toast
You do not just go and wing it when it comes to giving your best man speech. Adequate planning goes into making sure you give a meaningful and sensible speech. No matter how spontaneous you may be, when you are staring down at some 200 plus guests, there is a very high tendency that your wits could flee and depart you.
Your saving grace at such times will be the little notes you’ve got to look at and planned ahead. This doesn’t mean you should read the speech directly from the note; just use it as a guide that helps you remember your line.
You might also want to do a practice speech with your friends, the groom inclusive, to give you some confidence and make sure your speech is acceptable.
- You could begin with a few romantic or live quotes, which show how special the couple is together or how much you love and respect the friend getting married.
- You can then go on to thank the parents for paying for the wedding or appreciate the couple for sharing their special day with you if they are the sponsors.
- You might need to introduce yourself to the party and then introduce the couple, by telling a humorous story about them or how they met.
- You could also introduce yourself by narrating a funny (but not too embarrassing) story of an escapade you had with the groom.
- Compliment both the bride and groom by mentioning something special and unique about each of them, and then you go ahead and talk about how lucky they are to have each other.
- Remember to make the speech personal and unique to the couple.
- Finally, and most importantly, do not be raucous or tell stories of exes or make fun of the bride or the groom, telling absurd jokes about them.
- Keep the toast relatively short and precise; you don’t want people feeling like they are back at assembly listening to the principal’s long winded
- You need to tell a few jokes.
- Speak calmly, clearly, loudly and slowly, and avoid long and dramatic pauses, which could leave guests squeamish and embarrassed.
- You need to be ready for the speech immediately everybody settles in at the tables so as to avoid being caught off-guard.
- Maintain eye contact with the guests and involve the couple as much as possible.
Good luck in giving your great wedding toast speech. We hope, with these tips, you give a great wedding toast speech that would make your most macho friends tear up and want to get hitched.
Here are a few wedding toast quotes that could help you in starting your speech.
Lovely Wedding Toast Quotes to Start Your Speech
- Marriage, n. The state or condition of a community consisting of a master, a mistress, and two slaves, making in all, two. — Ambrose Bierce, “The Devil’s Dictionary,” 1911
- Marriage is a great institution, but I’m not ready for an institution. — Mae West
- One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love. — Sophocles
- Love is blind — marriage is the eye-opener. — Pauline Thomason
- I think men who have a pierced ear are better prepared for marriage. They’ve experienced pain and bought jewelry. — Rita Rudner
- To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the wedding cup, whenever you’re wrong, admit it; whenever you’re right, shut up. — Ogden Nash
- A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust. — Nanette Newman
- Politics doesn’t make strange bedfellows, marriage does. — Groucho Marx
- The absolute yearning of one human body for another particular body and its indifference to substitutes is one of life’s major mysteries. — Iris Murdoch
- Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it.
Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it.
Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.
— Martin Luther King, Jr.
- Immature love says: “I love you because I need you.” Mature love says: “I need you because I love you.” — Erich Fromm
- Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. — Antoine de Saint-Exupery
- A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes in it. — Anonymous
- To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. — Woody Allen
- Laughter is the shortest distance between two people. — Victor Borge
- Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have. — Rabbi H. Schachtel
- And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye. — Antoine de Saint-Exupery
- Marriage is the golden ring in a chain whose beginning is a glance and whose ending is Eternity. — Kahlil Gibran
- Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. — Barnett Brickner
- There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage. — Martin Luther
- A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. — Mignon McLaughlin
- Marriage should be a duet — when one sings, the other claps. — Joe Murray
- The great secret of successful marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters. — Sir Harold George Nicolson
- Love is the lifespring of our existence. The more love you give, the happier you feel and the more love you will have within you to give. — Susan L. Taylor
- Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. — Kahlil Gibran